Some words in this universe are better felt than heard.
Imagine yourself to be whispering to the ears of the lady of your dream the three magnificent words day in and day out. Though the words are universally acknowledged and most enthusiastically liked, they are sure to lose both weight and impact if practiced in a regular basis.
Now, these very feelings that those three words convey could be portrayed without uttering a single of them—and perhaps, in a more effective way.
Just think of offering a small bud of Red Rose—newly plucked—to her beautiful hands without any special occasions, or buying her something as little as sweet candies—(as in my case, my “Dream” likes to taste ‘Cough Drops’ whenever she is doing nothing)—and see the instant effect. It is almost inevitable that she will at once greet you with a most desired hug and with a thousand watt smile that needs no more explanation.
Have you ever considered of offering her unasked help when she is busy at the other corner of the house with all her regular household rituals, and you are comfortably seated on the sofa enjoying every moment of the live telecast of that great India-Australia cricket match with some empty vessels of coffee rested peacefully on the centre-table? If you didn’t, well, you should—at least, once in a blue moon.
Dear friends, you don’t have to make a big hole at your pockets and purchase her a diamond necklace to make her happy; just offer her a miserly nail-polish of any standard make and say: ‘this colour suits your pious nails much more than anything else’—and see the result.
How many mornings a year do you prepare the breakfast for her? Well, you needn’t to blush—do it for once a year—and leave the responsibility to her for the rest 364 days. Even then it will do the trick for you.
And you thought you love your lady very dearly as you have made a habit of saying “I Love You” each and every morning and in every little occasion! And you were wondering why you miss that much-awaited flash of glee in her eyes despite loving her so deeply!
Surely friends, only “I Love You” is not enough!
Imagine yourself to be whispering to the ears of the lady of your dream the three magnificent words day in and day out. Though the words are universally acknowledged and most enthusiastically liked, they are sure to lose both weight and impact if practiced in a regular basis.
Now, these very feelings that those three words convey could be portrayed without uttering a single of them—and perhaps, in a more effective way.
Just think of offering a small bud of Red Rose—newly plucked—to her beautiful hands without any special occasions, or buying her something as little as sweet candies—(as in my case, my “Dream” likes to taste ‘Cough Drops’ whenever she is doing nothing)—and see the instant effect. It is almost inevitable that she will at once greet you with a most desired hug and with a thousand watt smile that needs no more explanation.
Have you ever considered of offering her unasked help when she is busy at the other corner of the house with all her regular household rituals, and you are comfortably seated on the sofa enjoying every moment of the live telecast of that great India-Australia cricket match with some empty vessels of coffee rested peacefully on the centre-table? If you didn’t, well, you should—at least, once in a blue moon.
Dear friends, you don’t have to make a big hole at your pockets and purchase her a diamond necklace to make her happy; just offer her a miserly nail-polish of any standard make and say: ‘this colour suits your pious nails much more than anything else’—and see the result.
How many mornings a year do you prepare the breakfast for her? Well, you needn’t to blush—do it for once a year—and leave the responsibility to her for the rest 364 days. Even then it will do the trick for you.
And you thought you love your lady very dearly as you have made a habit of saying “I Love You” each and every morning and in every little occasion! And you were wondering why you miss that much-awaited flash of glee in her eyes despite loving her so deeply!
Surely friends, only “I Love You” is not enough!
hi,
ReplyDeleteNo, I'm not agreed with all the points of your version of offering love. If you make breakfast once in a bright good morning for your betterhalf(???!!!), expectations raise to a new height that buddy would do the same again and again. Believe me, my wife frequently utters in the holidays (for me, that comes occasionally) " ogo, tumi sedin ki sunder breakfast baniechile!" (beloved, you prepared a great breakfast that day)and the charm of enjoying newspaper with hot coffee or a great cricket match atonce goes in vain.
Next, I must say befooling wives or partners by saying "I love You" is a goneaway thought because now they expect more, may be materials in place of ILU.
Conjugal understanding is a different and dificult issue where many things matter. Suppose, you are a successful Manager of a flourishing company and if you think your idea of managing your wife is enough just like handing the company affirs, then you are a big fool. It varies person to person. A day wager may keep his wife haapy by his own tactics where many successful personalities may fail.
Hence, keep your expectations away and enjoy this world the way you and only you like! Good day.
Cheers!
Sandy.
a nice joke for wooing wives!
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